BPD Breakup – My Lowest Point

I was sitting on the steps in my house this afternoon and in a flash, I remembered one of the lowest points I reached after breaking up with the girl who I believed was THE ONE for me. It was about two months after breaking up with my Borderline disordered ex-girlfriend that I hit my lowest point.

The Waif’s Empty Eyes

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One thing I noticed about my Borderline Waif ex-girlfriend is that her eyes almost always seemed lifeless and empty. It always seemed creepy to me. It is even noticeable in photos of her. She always appeared distant and alone, even in group shots when everyone was smiling (including her).

Borderline Personality Disorder Symptoms

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What are the symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder? There is no easy answer to this question. There are many behaviors and traits that can be attributed to BPD, but without a professional diagnosis, you will be hard-pressed to define the problem as BPD. What are some of the common symptoms a person suffering from Borderline Personality Disorder displays?

Self Hoovering Post Relationship

A hoover is when your Borderline ex makes an attempt to draw you back into the cycle (relationship) with them. Remember, you were once a source for them, and in difficulty, they may come back to you looking for more (sometimes a very long time after the relationship has ended). A self-hoover is when you break no contact or nc, and contact or check-up on your Borderline Disordered ex. That’s what I did.