Tag «breakup recovery»

Feeling Better or Feeling Familiar

I miss the comfort in being sad. – Kurt Cobain, Nirvana The lyric quoted above is from the Nirvana song, “Frances Farmer Will Have Her Revenge On Seattle” from their In Utero album.  I happened to hear the song on the radio today (I’ve heard it many times before) and the lyric struck me like …

Identifying Our Faulty Logic Through Self-Analysis

analize your relationship

Self-analysis is absolutely required after breaking up with a Borderline Personality Disordered individual. We need to recognize why we were so drawn to them in the first place and what kept us around through all the abuse. How did we maintain such a strong emotional connection for a person who continually showed us they were …

Healing and Acceptance

healing and acceptance

How do I get over this breakup?  I asked myself this question so many times for such a long time.  A year-and-a-half later, sometimes I still ask this question. I tried everything, for months on-end, but found no magic formula to extinguish the burning hurt and confusion that this breakup left me with.  I remember, …

Why Was I With a Borderline Disordered Person?

Why did you get involved with someone who has Borderline Personality Disorder? Why did you try so hard to have a relationship with someone disordered? If we really want to make any progress in our healing, we must ask ourselves this question. We will never get the answers we seek from our Borderline ex’s; we can only seek these answers from within ourselves.